In the midst of death, what do you really see? When you find yourself standing among those who are grieving, what comes to mind? You feel their pain, your heart aches with them; even when, to be sincere, you did not know the one who has passed away personally. You stand there, holding a hand, offering a hug, and you realize that the only reason you can relate is because at some point in your life, you, too, have tasted grief. You have buried someone who mattered to you, and t